I explained the ban on your wall. The disrespectful attitude you've been displaying will not be tolerated. That's why I was warning you in the first place. That's all there is to it. See you in a week.
Again, the screenshot I provided was just an example, you have a tendency to want to have the last word in everything because you feel you're right, often you're rude or inflammatory. Not to mention the fact that the example I gave violated the comment policy anyway, and you may have been joking, but that doesn't change anything. Just because nobody said anything about it doesn't mean nobody noticed or cared. The purpose of the warning was to draw your attention to this before it becomes a big issue. It can be easy to not realize how our comments will look to others when we're talking in text. You got yourself blocked when you continued to be disrespectful and borderline insulting. That's all I have to say about this. It's only a big deal if you turn it into one.
I don't try to be rude or inflammatory. If it comes off that way, I apologize. In the final message before you banned me, I said I will try to do better in the future, and you banned me anyway. I'm not trying to make a big deal out of it, but it doesn't seem like I was even given a chance to change anything, and I was banned. Also, I have no idea who Dirtbag Daryl is, or why he is commenting on this. Thanks for talking.
What got you blocked was that last message. You were being rude, disrespectful and kind of insulting. And that's not like you, which is why the block is short :) My real goal in the entire situation is to get you to think more about what you're saying in the comments and forums. And that's something we all struggle with, myself included. It's nothing personal, I enjoy having you on the wiki.
I think we understand each other here, so I'm going to shorten the block.
Can you please give me an answer? I know to you this ban is not a big deal, but it is giving me a ton of extra anxiety and I would like to have an idea of when I will be able to post again. Adam posted 611's title, and I really feel like I am missing out on being part of the group, which as a person who was often left out of "groups", for not being cool or normal or whatever enough, feels really bad.
Pardon me, the previous post was much ruder than I intended.
The blocks use utc time, the same as the clock on the ouat wiki. Your block should end at 2pmish, central time.
However, I would like to remind you to try to think about what you're saying before you say it, as I found your previous posts here to be pretty demanding, and trying to act like your justified block is some kind of personal thing against you, or trying to guilt someone into further shortening a block, is just not okay. See you Sunday.
I didn't see the previous post, so don't worry about it. Thank you for answering the question. Also, I'm not trying to guilt you into doing anything, I'm just telling you how I am feeling. Finally, I would like to point out that while I don't think the block is because you personally have something against me, a block on a specific person is indeed personal, as one person (the blocker) is singling out another person (the blockee) for behavior they deem worthy of blocking. And because it is a person judgeing another person's actions, there is a level of subjectivity to it. Also, because this is all written communication (without the benefits of things like tone of voice and body language) things can be furthur misunderstood. And please don't think anything here I wrote is me trying to be passive agressive or anything, I do think this is actually an interesting topic, as writing is a fairly unique form of communication, as well as an important one. Anyway, I should be on the forums a bit before Once comes on on Sunday, so talk to you then. :)
What you're saying here is my entire point. I might know I'm joking, but it may not seem that way to others. And it really is something I kind of struggle with myself. Seems like you're starting to understand the point tho :) see you soon!
So I contacted wikia about all the things the happened on OUAT Wiki, and they said this
"I think this was a misunderstanding between all involved. I agree with Utter solitude in that you seemed to be acting defensive in your conversation with her, and that it was probably not a good idea to send Apple a message calling Utter solitude rude (as opposed to talking about your concerns with Utter solitude herself). On the other hand, I also think that Utter solitude took you calling her rude a bit too personally. I think this led to a high-tension situation that ultimately led to your block."
I was going apologized for the rude comment but you never give me a chance/time on chat that one day, which I'll say right now "I'm sorry for calling you rude". I did have statements to prove my thoughts and that's why I got defensive, but you toke it personally and ultimately blocked me without any rule being broken. I was going to leave a message on Apple's talk but I thought it was best to message you personally (Wikia thought that would be best). I hope you understand and unban me, I really just wanted to edit, and help out on the wiki.
Thanks for reading!
I appreciate your apology, but you absolutely did insult me, whether you claim it or not, and that is a violation of our rules. I asked you to drop it, and you decided to keep pressing it. I gave you several warnings and chances to drop the issue and move on, and you decided not to. That is why you were blocked, and I will not be unblocking you. Going to Wikia staff really was unnecessary, and I'm not going to unblock you because of it.
This is the last I'm going to say on this subject. Just let it go, it's not that serious. It's a minor issue that you seem to be having trouble letting go of. Please, just drop it. Use the remaining time of your block to reflect on it, and let it go.
I did claim I was sorry for calling you rude above, also after the Apple message I left I moved on and left a completely different message to Apple, which was irrevenlrnt to the insult. Which you clearly thought I was still going to insult you which I didn't, and you said if I had an issue with a you to speak directly to you so that's what I did on chat, and try to explain myself and didn't give me a chance to speak and say I was sorry. I was way way over the issue by now, but you didn't give me a chance to express my said so that's why I brought up again.
Once again am Sorry. - I understand what your saying, but can you please see my side. Thanks and I'm probebly won't reply to the next message, as I will just wait until my block ends I think I explain myself to many times and hope you reply.
You in no way tried to explain yourself, you tried to claim you didn't insult me. No, I didn't think you were going to insult me again, what got you banned was your refusal to let the issue go. You were pestering me about it, and you are continuing to do so. I asked you to drop it. I gave you ample warnings and chances to do so. You didn't. I let you know you would be blocked if you continued, and you did. It shouldn't be surprising to you that a block was the result.
I don't have an issue with you personally, it's simply the fact you refuse to let the issue ago after I've given you ample chances to do so. I was never looking for an apology from you, just for you to drop the issue. Unfortunately, you didn't. You still haven't.
Only I know what I truly wanted out of it, and did my best ability to explain, but you can assume what you thought which I respect, I'll just close this thread (Once I get home, idk if I can close or admin has to but I'll figure it out) and be back in a month to edit on OUAT Wiki. :)
Line showing I am droping it. (If you comment that means were going to continue what were trying to avoid)