Have you ever felt pressured to try and make your wiki the best possible? You visit all of the fandom's wikis and critique it to make yours "the best".
I have recently been bullied to a small extent by people that I hold very dear to me. I was told that I was ugly and a loser. That I was useless and going to ruin my life. I was told that I HAD to improve myself and I had to be exactly like them. I know that at least one of the people who did this will read this blog, but I want them to know that I will do everything in my power to be exactly who I need to be.
Likewise, you should not care about how other people perceive your work and appearance. I learned that the hard way. Express yourself as you wish to, but do it in a way that won’t ruin you. Apply this thought to your work, and you will have the height of wikis. It is your right to make your wiki your way. So put that into action and make it yours.